Marlene Zerweck, LMFT #46386
Overcoming Patterns of Anxiety and Self-Doubt


Codependency & Over-Functioning
Learning to stay connected without losing yourself.
Codependency is often misunderstood.
It's not simply about caring too much. It's a pattern that develops when connection becomes tied to:
- managing others' emotions
- avoiding conflict
- keeping the peace at your own expense
Over time, this can lead to:
- a focus on others over yourself
- difficulty identifying your own needs
- over-fucntioning in relationships
- discomfort with boundaries or saying no
Many people with these patterns are:
- empathetic
- perceptive
- responsible
- deeply caring
These are strengths.
But when they come at the cost of yourself, they can lead to exhaustion, resentment, and a loss of clarity.
In our work together, we focus on:
- understanding how these patterns developed
- differentiating between care and self-abandonment
- increasing awareness of your internal experience
- strengthening your ability to stay connected to yourself in relationships
The goal isn't to stop caring. It's to care without losing yourself, stay connected without self-abandonment, and relate from clarity rather than from fear.